ETV addiction - do you experience it?

Hi all. I've been experiencing what I can only describe an addiction to ETV in the last month after my first granted exclusive wish. It's been like roller coaster ever since.

My mind tells me that it is not worth it asking for exclusive shows, that my particular tastes are better served with other websites and for much cheaper, but from time to time I can't resist asking for an exclusive. It is probably the live factor, that you have the power to command the models to fulfill your wishes and in a short time frame. Or the expectation of fulfillment of that wish? But there is inevitably a letdown many times, as your wish is not granted as expected.

I like many of the girls but I don't think they are worth the extra cash an exclusive costs. From the money I've spent on ETV in the last month I could have had yearly subscriptions to several porn websites, like wowgirls.com, which offer terabytes of uncensored 1080p videos for download, unlike ETV's stream-only barely HD. I am probably not alone as people discuss hot shows and taming of ETV, but even the hottest shows are not even close to what the before mentioned example of wowgirls and similar can offer - an example: a girl masturbating with the spoon she previously used for stirring her morning coffee and when she comes and pulls out the spoon, her juices slowly flow out of her pussy. You won't see that on ETV.

Do you experience the same addiction, the high (with faster heartbeat) when your wish is on the verge of fulfillment? Is there a way to wean yourself off of ETV? I just can't afford to spend so much time (whole evenings) on ETV.

[quote='pollopollo']It is not easy for me at the moment to identify with ETV.
My favorite girls are also less and less.
We will see what the future brings.
Merry Christmas![/quote

The year 2010 contained the majority of my all time favorites, now there are only 2 left (L + R).
In the end I hope that they will depart soon, they (and also the other models and the nice people behind the camera) deserve something better.
Maybe it would have been better for everyone involved, models, viewers, the nice stuff behind the camera if ETV never had existed.

It is not easy for me at the moment to identify with ETV.
My favorite girls are also less and less.
We will see what the future brings.
Merry Christmas!

I wonder which part of ETV's customer base is bigger,
the part that is interested in ETV on the whole and not in a specific model,
or the part that is only interested in one or two favorite models, and when those models are gone this customer disappears, too.

ETV has addicted our daily life, our wallets and timetable, i love it to be honest!!!!!!

i had an etv addiction when their shows was hot, free and with a lot of fetish and domination games... now i deleted the sat channel from my favourites and sometimes i download some videos posted here... for me etv is dead.

Well, with me it's a kind of affection too.
Not with calls, SMS or Exclusives, but with watching the night shows.
If one of my favorite girls is on air I feel the need to watch, and I usually watch longer than I basically want to, though I usually record the shows anyway and make my videos afterwards.

So in the end I'd call that addiction too.

Regards
Joker

logic wrote:

Slowfox wrote:

GeorgeSK wrote:

Slowfox wrote:Sure the girls are kind of actresses selling some kind of illusion and that is certainly valid for the one time or less frequent 5 minute caller. It is, however, tough to maintain pretention once you spend hours, weeks, months, years, speaking with one person. You get to know each other quite well, and that is for the good and the bad.

I don't doubt your words to some extent. But I still have this nagging feeling in the back of my head that if you are a good friend with a model and the relationship is mutual and genuine than you would both find a way to communicate outside ETV and wouldn't need that "switchboard".

That would be breaking rules and putting the girls job at risk.

Sorry Slow, but I'm sure this is not the main reason. ETV can't control the whole private live of the models, so I'm sure contact with a viewer would be possible without that ETV notice this.

I think the main reason is, that the (most) models live 2 lifes: Their normal private live.......and when they go through the ETV-door they enter their 2nd life. And in this 2nd life they're of course happy when there are some viewers with whom they can build up something like a friendship, having normal conversations not only about sexual things. Often you can see this by a smile on the models face, when they are talking to such kind of viewer.
But they are not interested to have any contact to the viewer outside of ETV, because family and friends don't know what kind of work they are doing. So they don't want to mix both lifes.

I was in the same situation some years ago and I reget nothing. But I remember that I didn't like to pay a lot of money only for talking to a woman and had always mixed feelings. Fortunately my favorite was absolutely honest to me and told me in one of our first conversations that she will never have private contact with me. I admit that I needed a long time to understand and accept this.


At the end........I would never do it again! Paying money for talking to a woman or even for the feeling of a friendship isn't good........and I'm absolutely sure none of the ETV-models would spend a single Cent to talk to one of us!

A very good and insightful answer. Would you call, what you had, an addiction in relation to the original topic, in a sense that you sometimes couldn't wait to switch on the TV and call your favourite model? Thanks.

Slowfox wrote:

GeorgeSK wrote:

Slowfox wrote:Sure the girls are kind of actresses selling some kind of illusion and that is certainly valid for the one time or less frequent 5 minute caller. It is, however, tough to maintain pretention once you spend hours, weeks, months, years, speaking with one person. You get to know each other quite well, and that is for the good and the bad.

I don't doubt your words to some extent. But I still have this nagging feeling in the back of my head that if you are a good friend with a model and the relationship is mutual and genuine than you would both find a way to communicate outside ETV and wouldn't need that "switchboard".

That would be breaking rules and putting the girls job at risk.

Sorry Slow, but I'm sure this is not the main reason. ETV can't control the whole private live of the models, so I'm sure contact with a viewer would be possible without that ETV notice this.

I think the main reason is, that the (most) models live 2 lifes: Their normal private live.......and when they go through the ETV-door they enter their 2nd life. And in this 2nd life they're of course happy when there are some viewers with whom they can build up something like a friendship, having normal conversations not only about sexual things. Often you can see this by a smile on the models face, when they are talking to such kind of viewer.
But they are not interested to have any contact to the viewer outside of ETV, because family and friends don't know what kind of work they are doing. So they don't want to mix both lifes.

I was in the same situation some years ago and I reget nothing. But I remember that I didn't like to pay a lot of money only for talking to a woman and had always mixed feelings. Fortunately my favorite was absolutely honest to me and told me in one of our first conversations that she will never have private contact with me. I admit that I needed a long time to understand and accept this.


At the end........I would never do it again! Paying money for talking to a woman or even for the feeling of a friendship isn't good........and I'm absolutely sure none of the ETV-models would spend a single Cent to talk to one of us!

Slowfox wrote:

GeorgeSK wrote:

Slowfox wrote:Sure the girls are kind of actresses selling some kind of illusion and that is certainly valid for the one time or less frequent 5 minute caller. It is, however, tough to maintain pretention once you spend hours, weeks, months, years, speaking with one person. You get to know each other quite well, and that is for the good and the bad.

I don't doubt your words to some extent. But I still have this nagging feeling in the back of my head that if you are a good friend with a model and the relationship is mutual and genuine than you would both find a way to communicate outside ETV and wouldn't need that "switchboard".

That would be breaking rules and putting the girls job at risk.

I am sorry, but I wouldn't want a relationship like this. This kind of a relationship is just like going to a restaurant and order an expensive meal every evening just to talk to the beautiful waitress for 10 minutes. Yes, you get to know each other quite well over the years, you may even become some kind of friends. But is it a real relationship? I doubt it. Like the ETV model, the waitress may have many similar "friends" to you who visit that place every day.

GeorgeSK wrote:

Slowfox wrote:Sure the girls are kind of actresses selling some kind of illusion and that is certainly valid for the one time or less frequent 5 minute caller. It is, however, tough to maintain pretention once you spend hours, weeks, months, years, speaking with one person. You get to know each other quite well, and that is for the good and the bad.

I don't doubt your words to some extent. But I still have this nagging feeling in the back of my head that if you are a good friend with a model and the relationship is mutual and genuine than you would both find a way to communicate outside ETV and wouldn't need that "switchboard".

That would be breaking rules and putting the girls job at risk.

Slowfox wrote:Sure the girls are kind of actresses selling some kind of illusion and that is certainly valid for the one time or less frequent 5 minute caller. It is, however, tough to maintain pretention once you spend hours, weeks, months, years, speaking with one person. You get to know each other quite well, and that is for the good and the bad.

I don't doubt your words to some extent. But I still have this nagging feeling in the back of my head that if you are a good friend with a model and the relationship is mutual and genuine than you would both find a way to communicate outside ETV and wouldn't need that "switchboard".

kennyboy2012 wrote:lol
fair enough, although she isn't being haunted, I doubt she will even see the wall, it was mainly aimed at ETV on the hope that they will let her do what she wants, instead of the usual ETV dictation of what the girls do. a lot of the girls would do higher levels if allowed or paid properly, but its ETV that sets the levels , not the girls, that's the problem. For a good example, look at Leona. Her 4hr show was quite tame, but she's done higher levels on ETV previously, its all down to ETV.
I would never want Destiny to do anything she didn't want to do.

I am glad you find that asmusing. that is a plus on your side. Giving somehow in, never forcing her to anything she does not feel comfortable with is a second point for you.

Destiny, in this particular case is just an example. It could have been any other girl so let's walk away from discussing Destiny and give the discussion a more general nature which could be related to any girl.

I am of the opinion, and I remain with it, that besides rules in house ETV, the final word of limits of the girls is with the girls. And that is how it should be. If this is not respected by the employer, then it is cheating. As the recent exodus of girls give an indication, the employer/employee relation is currently pretty fragile and what I called above 'cheating' can contribute to the motivation of the girls to run away.

I agree, let the girls the liberty to make a show. Be receptive about their ideas and proposals and their view, but do not suffocate them by pushing them into situations, camera views and angles they are not comfortable with. There were also situations where the girls could not even move anymore with cameras that much focussed that any inch of movement would have revealed what they were desperately trying to hide. Would you call this a comfortable working place ?

There are certainly different girls with a vast variety of different limits, but regardless of, the point is to respect what they are willing to do and how far they want to go. Pressure only creates counter pressure. In the end all are under pressure and that gets visible.

GeorgeSK wrote:Slowfox, I take it you have affection for one of the girls at ETV.

But aren't the models trained to establish this kind of almost intimate relationship with viewers to have them call endless minutes into the studio (another kind of addiction)?

Just yesterday in the night show I saw a very awkward situation stemming from this: Lauren was wearing a ring and viewers asked her if she was engaged. She said not but she got that ring from a very special person to her, a viewer, I think a guy called Max. As a reaction an Italian guy, I think Giovanni or something sent a message saying basically that he thought he was that special person to Lauren. The message was displayed and Lauren couldn't really answer and went on to answer a different message. It was really awkward.

True words. No doubt. Cannot say anything about any relation Lauren has built up with her viewers, respectively callers, though.

Sure the girls are kind of actresses selling some kind of illusion and that is certainly valid for the one time or less frequent 5 minute caller. It is, however, tough to maintain pretention once you spend hours, weeks, months, years, speaking with one person. You get to know each other quite well, and that is for the good and the bad.

Slowfox wrote:

kennyboy2012 wrote:

Slowfox wrote:Seriously ? No.

My commitment is for one and only one. ETV is just the platform, the telephone switchboard, if you so want. That's all.

I do not buy exclusives, nor any poremium shows, with one exception.

Sometime back, somebody here in the forum said 'go get a life, away from and outside of ETV'. My reply was, that I have a life, but ETV (or better she) has entered my life and forms part of it. At least as long as it lasts.

Addiction ? Still .... nope.

But related to what I said above,

Affection ? definitely .... yeppers.

I'm guessing you mean Destiny?

nope

I just felt pity for the poor girl, being haunted

besides she is your private object of desire and I would never interfere with that

lol
fair enough, although she isn't being haunted, I doubt she will even see the wall, it was mainly aimed at ETV on the hope that they will let her do what she wants, instead of the usual ETV dictation of what the girls do. a lot of the girls would do higher levels if allowed or paid properly, but its ETV that sets the levels , not the girls, that's the problem. For a good example, look at Leona. Her 4hr show was quite tame, but she's done higher levels on ETV previously, its all down to ETV.
I would never want Destiny to do anything she didn't want to do.